{"id":2547,"date":"2019-05-03T03:00:21","date_gmt":"2019-05-03T08:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/?p=2547"},"modified":"2019-05-09T11:29:56","modified_gmt":"2019-05-09T16:29:56","slug":"segmented-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/segmented-life\/","title":{"rendered":"A Segmented Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Give Your Life the Time It Needs?<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Measuring Your Length of Time &#8211; Part 2<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How is time impacting the business called your life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you have enough time to do the things that matter in your life or are you struggling to find time? &nbsp;Or are you wasting time and don\u2019t really see it as a waste?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In our previous web-post, we discussed the facets that impact your time: your job, your work, and your life. &nbsp;We need to spend just a little more time with this last facet, our lives. Let me remind you that there is no separation between your job, your work, and your life when it comes to time. &nbsp;Time will never respect any of these facets, neither will time show favoritism towards one over the other. This is all on you. With that said, popular thinking will have you think your time for each is seperate. &nbsp;The world around us makes it seem that the 40 hours you work on a job doesn\u2019t interfere with the other facets of your life. By now you and I know that\u2019s wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #999999;\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2549 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=400%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/20190503-TIF-SM-A-Segmented-Life.png?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>The Thought or Concept:<br \/>\n<\/span><b>The business of your life<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This facet known as your life is what I call the business of your life. &nbsp;If your job and your work all have strategies for accomplishing goals, so should your life. &nbsp;If your job and your work require you to have scheduled appointments, meetings, and project plans, then so does your life. &nbsp;Otherwise, you\u2019ll never accomplish anything for your life because you\u2019ll never be able to find the time. \u201cFind the time.\u201d Do you know that you\u2019ll never find time just laying in wait until you pick it up. There\u2019s no extra time sitting on a shelf somewhere for you. &nbsp;Until you begin to make time (what I mean by that is schedule it), you\u2019ll never have the time you need to do life. You\u2019ll have a life, but it will fail to give you what you want out of it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #999999;\">The Practice:<br \/>\n<\/span><b>Managing Your Life Requires You To Put The Segments Together<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve broken life down into three time-categories. &nbsp;I\u2019m sure you can come up with more. No matter how many you come up with, you\u2019ll need to put them altogether in order to manage your life, which is your business, in the time you have allocated for it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s look at the three areas.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>The job.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &nbsp;If done correctly, your job will and can be a part of who you are. &nbsp;When you\u2019re able to work within your gifts, skills, and talents, you will not want to separate it from your life. &nbsp;Another side effect of separating your job from your life, is that your family, your spouse, your children will never get to know the whole you. &nbsp;They will only see a portion of who you are. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There were days where our jobs were separated from how we lived. &nbsp;We\u2019d go off to our places of employment, spend a third or more of our day (live another life) and come back home to be yet a different person. &nbsp;This happens to the normal person everyday and one reason is we\u2019ve never set and honored the appropriate time allocations for our complete life.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can you see a problem with this? &nbsp;Who are you? Are you the person in your office or on the job? &nbsp;Or are you the person your family sees at home? Many times it\u2019s the former. &nbsp;The folks on the job know more about you than even your own family. I call this a \u201csegmented life.\u201d <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Church or religion.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &nbsp;The same habit can follow us into our church life. &nbsp;For some, church life can be the worst. We all (the majority, the norm) have pretended to be someone else at church. &nbsp;We get all dressed up. The family is altogether, but at home we can\u2019t even eat together. What gives? We\u2019ve fallen prey to a \u201csegmented life.\u201d &nbsp;The answer begins with setting and respecting time allocations for the different facets of your life. When they get out of whack, someone usually gets left out and those are usually the people in your home and personal life.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ve not set a plan for how all of this works together. &nbsp;And when you don\u2019t have a plan, the \u201ccommon\u201d plan for all prevails. &nbsp;This means you have a \u201csegmented life\u201d because that\u2019s normal.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Home or personal.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &nbsp;Sometimes I don\u2019t know whether to say \u201chome\u201d or \u201cpersonal\u201d. &nbsp;Let me distinguish the two as they are in my mind:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Home. &nbsp;This is the person who has a family or someone to whom they should be accountable, home life.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personal. &nbsp;This is the person who is usually single and is not accountable to another, personal life.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Neither is more important than the other. &nbsp;They both have advantages, disadvantages, and require a plan.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re normal, you make this part of your life the least important and it\u2019s not intentional. &nbsp;You don&#8217;t believe you make it the least important, but note that time is the most valuable commodity you have. &nbsp;When you take it from the ones you love and give it to your job, what you\u2019re saying (whether you want to or not) is that your job is more important. &nbsp;You just gave to it something you can never get back and make more of. 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