{"id":2821,"date":"2019-10-25T03:00:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T08:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/?p=2821"},"modified":"2019-10-24T19:37:46","modified_gmt":"2019-10-25T00:37:46","slug":"life-of-margin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/life-of-margin\/","title":{"rendered":"Create a Life of Margin"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eight Examples to Create Margin in Your Life<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living A Life of Focus &#8211; Part 6<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Busy.\u00a0 Tired.\u00a0 Overwhelmed.\u00a0 Restless. Stressed.\u00a0 Those words are common everyday words you hear from most people.\u00a0 What you rarely hear is: relaxed, fulfilled, refreshed, ready, tranquil, and calm.\u00a0 These words are far less than common and almost nonexistent. Which words best describe your life?\u00a0 Are you brave enough to step away from the norm and live a life of margin?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Welcome to our sixth installment and our fifth focus statement.\u00a0 We implement focus statements because we desire to see change, intentional change, occur in our own lives.\u00a0 In this lesson we\u2019re studying our \u201cMarginal Habits &#8211; Create Margin in All We Do\u201d focus statement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marginal Defined by the Bible: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBetter [uncommon] is one handful [margin] with tranquility than two handfuls with toil [too much going on in your life] and chasing after the wind [never being satisfied].&#8221; &#8211; <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/111\/ecc.4.6.niv\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bible.com\/111\/ecc.4.6.niv<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #808080;\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2822 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=400%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1191025-TIF-SM-Create-a-Life-of-Margin.png?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>The Thought or Concept:<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Most people are not quite sure when they pass from margin to overload.&#8221; &#8211;\u00a0 <\/span><\/i><a href=\"http:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/more-margin.html\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Michael Hyatt<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Could it be that you never noticed when things got out of control and instead of living life, you began chasing it?\u00a0 Are you now wishing you had more time and it seems like there\u2019s never enough of it? You need some margin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this episode, we\u2019re going to help you see the benefits of creating margin in everything you do.\u00a0 I\u2019ve learned an important lesson from practicing this focus statement on margin. It\u2019s resulted in how to get control of our lives by slowing down what I call \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/category\/series-archive\/slow-your-pace\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the pace of life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u201d\u00a0 This is called margin.\u00a0 Margin is you scaling back, doing less, so that you can achieve more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Margin is taking back control of your life from all the people and activities that have stolen it away.\u00a0 It\u2019s you setting limits and boundaries. Margin means you can breathe and slow the pace of your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #808080;\">The Practice:<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to sleep better at night, add a little margin to every area of your life.\u00a0 If you want a better relationship with your spouse or children add a little margin. It\u2019s not going to come by you continuing to do what you\u2019re currently doing.\u00a0 If you desire better working conditions, you don\u2019t need a new job, you need to add just a little margin. So let\u2019s talk about how to get it.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since we\u2019ve defined it, to truly understand it, I&#8217;d like to share eight ways you can set margin in your life.\u00a0 I think of my life, my home, my family as a business and so should you. As a business your life has these departments that must be managed.\u00a0 I\u2019d like to discuss the eight departments that make up one&#8217;s life and give an example of how we establish margin in each department. Let\u2019s do it.\u00a0 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(Note: some of these examples might sound a little extreme and they should because this is uncommon stuff.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Executive Administration.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 Years ago Pamela and I decided to change worship service times from 9:30 a.m. to 8:00 a.m.\u00a0 This required a little more discipline because who wants to get out of bed even earlier every Sunday morning?\u00a0 That\u2019s around 6:00 a.m. and it\u2019s the weekend. But it\u2019s this time change that enabled us to have a more enjoyable and less wasted Sunday.\u00a0 This change gave us something we could not have had had we not made the small adjustment. We gained margin. What can you do to set margin within the department for the executives in your home?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Finance.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 We decided that we would never again want to chase our bills.\u00a0 You know that feeling of trying to figure out when to pay what only to find out something is overdue or increased.\u00a0 So we created a process that allows us to pay our monthly financial obligations ahead. We created margin in our bills and when we have to pay them.\u00a0 For more on this topic see, our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/category\/products\/pay-ahead\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">web-posts for paying-ahead<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0 What financial change can you make or dream of making so that you can experience some financial freedom?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Facilities.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 We struggled for the longest time to keep our home as clean as we wanted it.\u00a0 Each week we tackled cleaning a predetermined room or set of rooms. We could never clean the entire house all at once; we were just not good at it.\u00a0 We continued to fail at it and it was taking up all our time. So instead of hiring someone to cut the grass, we hired someone to clean the house. Talk about breathe again.\u00a0 It freed us from a mountain of chores that we could never conquer. What could you do differently to ease the burdensome chores found in your home?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Office Administration.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 I used to keep all receipts in a physical expandable folder.\u00a0 In fact, every piece of paperwork that came into the home I filed away until one day we\u2019d had enough.\u00a0 We implemented a paperless solution which changed the game forever. Now all that paperwork is available to us everywhere and accessible anytime.\u00a0 It\u2019s this process that brought margin in the form of organization and efficiency. What process can you enhance by adding a little margin in how you perform your office administrative work?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Production and Development.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 This department outlines how we do what we do.\u00a0 To add margin here, we decided to change how we worked our priorities.\u00a0 We used to spend long hours on the job because we needed to accomplish our work.\u00a0 We altered this by scheduling the work we must get done first and the rest had to wait until later.\u00a0 In other words, we took care of our work before helping someone else with theirs. Are you working longer hours because you\u2019re not getting to your priorities?\u00a0 What can you do to produce margin in your work?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Marketing.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 In order to create the change we\u2019d like to see in our lives, we implemented the very thing we\u2019re discussing today, focus statements.\u00a0 Each year we target an area to improve and all year we stay focused to this change. Know that you\u2019re marketing who you are every day, but how will you do a better job of it?\u00a0 What can you do to alter how you market yourself using a little margin?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Human Relations.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 You see we\u2019re not the most generous people by default.\u00a0 Yet we desired to be more generous and we felt it important to be generous to those closest to us.\u00a0 This focus on margin allows us to provide birthday cards and gifts to those closest to us. In order to carry this out, we implemented our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/dream-to-give\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">giving card<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0 This card allows us to be generous to the people we care about at anytime without putting a strain on our own finances.\u00a0 We created a plan to be generous. What can you do to add margin in how you care for your family?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Legacy.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 We\u2019ve recently changed the name of this department from legal\/political to legacy.\u00a0 Pamela and I wanted to do a little forward thinking on how to extend our impact beyond our life on earth.\u00a0 This type of thinking requires some out of the box thinking and actions so that we leave a legacy. We\u2019re preparing now for what\u2019s inevitable, so that we can have the impact we desire beyond the grave.\u00a0 That in itself is margin. What are you preparing (using margin to create) so that you can leave your legacy?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can\u2019t express enough how your life gets better by adding margin.\u00a0 Just think of it this way, you can live like everyone else and your life will be just like everyone else&#8217;s.\u00a0 However, implement this uncommon practice in just one area and I guarantee based on the results you see, you\u2019ll spread the practice to more areas of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today is Friday!<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this lesson we\u2019re discussing how you can create margin in all you do.\u00a0 I think I need to change definitions of margin. Margin is you gaining control of your life as opposed to living a life that\u2019s out of your control.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I hope this message has inspired you to do at least one part of your life differently.\u00a0 Now that we\u2019ve given this practice to you, can you give it to someone else? 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