{"id":3073,"date":"2020-03-27T03:00:02","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T08:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/?p=3073"},"modified":"2020-03-26T10:52:45","modified_gmt":"2020-03-26T15:52:45","slug":"our-four-walls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/our-four-walls\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting Outside Our Four Walls"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How To Interact With Intention?<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Caring For How We Interact &#8211; Part 1<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interacting with others is something that happens whether we want to or not, so why not set up guidelines for your family. What do I mean by this? Over the next couple of weeks, we&#8217;ll share things like how we interact with each other, how we as a nuclear-family (not gone nuclear family, but main family), interact with other family members, and the people we know. Being prepared for interacting with people builds confidence and a soft-skill that&#8217;s invaluable when accomplishing great things in life. In this set of messages, we\u2019re going to discuss family get-togethers and vacations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you and your family like to vacation? Sure you do. But, do you vacation well? Does travel create unnecessary burdens for you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBut those who won\u2019t <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">care for their relatives<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have denied the true faith. Such people are worse than unbelievers.\u201d &#8211; bible.com\/116\/1ti.5.8.nlt<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3074 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=400%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/1200327-TIF-SM-Getting-Outside-Our-Four-Walls.png?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #808080;\">The Thought or Concept:<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There have\u00a0 been many times when we vacation that we couldn\u2019t take advantage of certain experiences. We just didn\u2019t have the money. There were times we couldn\u2019t eat at nice restaurants and had to settle for eating in. I thought it had to do with our income or the bills we had. Maybe it was the timing that threw off our funds. To my surprise and possibly yours, it was none of these. The problem was, is, and always will be, the lack of a well defined plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Several years ago, Pamela and I decided we wanted to vacation and vacation well. Here\u2019s what that means. We wanted to go on vacation and enjoy ourselves. We didn\u2019t want to face paying for a vacation when we returned. We wanted to take several vacations, vacations of our choosing. So you might be thinking,\u00a0 how can you do this? And how can you do this with others? <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By the way, there&#8217;s a saying that you can&#8217;t pick your family, but I say you can pick the family you want to vacation with and how you can do it well. Keep that thought in mind.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #808080;\">The Practice:<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to vacation like the dreams you have in your head, then you need to plan. If you desire to succeed in the area of vacationing you need a plan. Said another way, if you wish to vacation like no one else, then you need a plan unlike anyone else. Let me introduce you to this next section of our family plan called, \u201cCaring For How We Interact.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our strategy consists of the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Planning your getaway.<\/strong><b><br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You first need to know a few things. How many trips do you want to have? What type of vacationing would you like to do? Where on earth will you travel? What does it take to travel like you want to travel?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Funding your vacation.<\/strong><b><br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You next need to know how you can pay for what\u2019s planned. Sometimes your money might not match the idea you have in mind for your travels. So you\u2019ll need a plan for that as well. Figure out based on your plans, how much it will cost and how you will save or pay for it. You have to make a budget item for that or at least have a plan for how you will obtain your vacation fund. We\u2019ll discuss how we manage ours, later.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Document the event.<\/strong><b><br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know the action word \u201cdocument\u201d sounds like there\u2019s work to do and takes away from vacationing. This documenting action is there so that your vacation doesn\u2019t end when you return home. You see, documenting helps you with the &#8220;making memories&#8221; process. It&#8217;s these memories that you can keep with you for a lifetime. When you capture your vacation with lots of pictures, the vacation can live long beyond the actual event. In fact, the memories are often better than the experience. Find the best way to capture your memories.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Lessons learned.<\/strong><b><br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you return, take advantage of what you\u2019ve discovered and can use for future travels. This is one of my favorite activities because it&#8217;s not just the post-work for one vacation; it&#8217;s the pre-work for your next vacation.\u00a0 It&#8217;s the lessons we learn that make our next experience free of past bad experiences.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over these next several lessons, what we expect to see happen is that you begin to think of ways you can formulate a plan that you (and your main people) interact with the world around you. That world includes your extended family, friends, co-workers, and even neighbors for some people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today is Friday!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What plans are you making to ensure your interactions with others are what you and your nuclear-family intend? How will you fund your plans and how will you interact with the people in your world? Will having a record of your events mean more to you in years to come? If so, what are you doing to capture the memories you\u2019ve made? Are there lessons to be learned from your last get together that can improve future get-togethers? How are you planning to make the special days special? In answering these questions you need a plan. It\u2019s your life, your business, what happens in it is in your hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Question: What strategies do you have for interacting with the people in your world?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thanks for visiting Kerry A. Clark &amp; Co. whose sole goal is to help you in doing the business you call your life. 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