{"id":7233,"date":"2024-11-08T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-11-08T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/?p=7233"},"modified":"2024-11-19T14:16:25","modified_gmt":"2024-11-19T20:16:25","slug":"sex-is-a-gift","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/sex-is-a-gift\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex is a Gift"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>God Created It, Not the Devil<\/strong><br><br><strong>What Was Sex Meant to Be?<\/strong> <strong>Part 2<\/strong><br><br>Sex is a gift from God for people who engage in it. Don&#8217;t get this one twisted. <strong>The devil has lied to us, society has painted a misleading picture, and the church has misrepresented it, if I might be frank.<\/strong> Intercourse between a man and a woman is a gift from God, and we shouldn&#8217;t allow the devil to distort what God has created. <sup>[1]<\/sup> God created it, not the devil. People have messed it up, and the devil has helped make it a source of pain, hurt, and disappointment. When we use it as God intended, it becomes an extraordinary and precious gift. Therefore, I want you to elevate your thinking regarding this activity meant for a married couple to engage in and enjoy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=1080%2C1080&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7235\" style=\"width:406px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/20241101-TIF-SM-Sex-is-a-Gift.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>A wife should be seen as the only person who supplies her husband with such a gift. I want to repeat it: A wife should be seen as the only person who can supply her husband with this gift. That&#8217;s a powerful statement. A wife desires to be the only one who supplies her husband with such a gift. As I said before, we have to treat it as a gift. Let me say it another way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A husband should be seen as the only person who gets to supply his wife with such a gift. A husband should be seen as the only person who supplies his wife with the gift of sex. To be more specific, a husband needs sex, and that should be directed towards his wife, who is the supplier of this gift, and that&#8217;s the purpose. A wife can meet this need and, at the same time, provide this gift. That&#8217;s the point when we keep this in the proper perspective, a righteous perspective, in a godly perspective, what it was meant for becomes a reality, and because we treat it with its intent, it is not abuse, it does not harm. It becomes much more satisfying and enjoyable when done correctly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Question: In what ways has sex been viewed as something other than a gift?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"http:\/\/eepurl.com\/gHvsaP\">Subscribe Now<\/a><\/div>\n \n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:10px\">[1] Matthew 19:6 NIV\u202c\u202c\u202c\u202c\u202c\u202c\u202c, Bible.com\u202c\u202c\u202c accessed October 16, 2024, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/MAT.19.6\">https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/MAT.19.6<\/a><br \/><br \/><em>All Scripture references used by permission, see our <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/scripture-copyrights\/\"><em>Scripture copyrights<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#e5e5e5;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#ffffff;color:#000000;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/familyplan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Family Plan Binder<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/familyplan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1025\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kerryaclark.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Family-Plan-Cover-e1493399146525.png?resize=115%2C149\" alt=\"\" width=\"115\" height=\"149\" \/><\/a> is available now! <p><\/p>\nOur team has worked very hard putting it together. We designed it to help you and your family move the needle forward in making your life your business. \nFind out more about the Family plan <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kerryaclark.com\/blog\/familyplan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here.<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This article emphasizes that sex is a gift meant to be enjoyed within marriage. It&#8217;s sad how society, the devil, and even the church have twisted this viewpoint, causing so much pain and disappointment. Therefore, there is a need for a new, positive view of sex as something valuable and incredibly satisfying when it follows God&#8217;s plan for it. 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